Planning on visiting your local country club for a round of golf or lunch? Make sure you observe these common etiquette rules!
With a record number of first-time players in 2017, the game of golf is once again a popular way to pass time.
Your colleague is a member of a prestigious golf club, and they’ve asked you to play a round of golf this Saturday.
Uh oh. You’ve never been to a golf club before? We’ve got you covered. Keep reading for seven etiquette rules to keep in mind for a round and lunch at the club.
- Check the Dress Code
Before you plan your outfit for the golf course, check the country club’s website or call ahead and inquire about the dress code. You should always follow the rules that apply to members.
To be safe, you should dress like you’re meeting your in-laws for the first time. Typically, country clubs do not allow cutoff shorts, yoga pants, midriff-bearing tops, denim, leggings, and other revealing attire. A collared shirt and blazer is sometimes required for dinner at certain clubs.
If you’re wondering what is appropriate to wear on the golf course, a preppy style always works. A golf shirt is perfect. They’re a little longer than polo shirts, which helps them stay tucked in while you’re swinging for the golf ball.
No matter the temperature outside, long pants are always a safe bet. Try to wear a breathable fabric such as linen, cotton, or a sporty moisture-wicking fabric. When it’s cold outside, wool is a good choice. Women should wear capris, pants, or a skirt, but never shorts longer than Bermuda length.
Golf shoes are usually required, and some clubs ask you to wear soft spikes instead of metal ones. Avoid wearing a shoe with a heel, as this could damage the greens.
- Remove Your Hat Inside
Hats are appropriate on the course, as they’ll protect your skin and eyes from the sun. Once the round is over, however, you should remove your hat before stepping into the clubhouse.
This is just like the age-old rule of not wearing a hat at the dinner table. It’s just rude.
Some traditions dictate that players remove their hats to shake hands at the end of the game. Just pay attention to what others around you are doing and act accordingly.
And never, ever wear your hat backward, whether you’re inside or outside.
- Be Courteous to Other Players
Golf is a respectful game. It’s important to keep other players in mind while you’re golfing.
Always leave the course in the condition you found it in. For example, if you create a divot in the tee box, try your best to fix it. There is usually sand provided on tee boxes for this purpose.
It is everyone’s responsibility to ensure that the golf course looks its best. If you’re golfing on the course, it is your job to keep it as well-maintained as possible for the players behind you.
- Be Genuine
Don’t stick out like a sore thumb. If you’re not used to being at a country club, it’s okay. You don’t need to fake your way through every interaction and experience.
Ask questions if you need to, and make light of the situation if you feel out of place. If you try to act like you’ve been there a million times before, the members are likely to pick up on your fake behavior.
Be yourself, treat others with respect, and be kind, and you’ll be welcomed back in no time.
- Respect the Game
Don’t distract other players.
There is nothing worse than being out on a quiet, beautiful golf course, and then being interrupted by an obnoxious player. Respect everyone’s game by allowing them to focus on their strategy.
Use social queues to determine when it’s time for conversation. And watch your alcohol intake! Don’t be the obnoxious drunk ruining everyone’s game.
- Know When to Put Away Your Phone
It’s never a good idea to pay more attention to your phone than the people you are with. This rule applies to all social situations.
On a golf course, however, it’s important to be quiet so that other players can focus. Your phone should stay on silent or in vibrate mode. Some clubhouses have restricted areas where you can’t use your phone, while others ask you not to use them altogether.
It’s always best to play it safe and avoid using your phone when possible. If you’re concerned there might be an emergency, find a designated area where phones are allowed.
- Remember to Tip
Before your trip, call ahead and ask what the country club’s rules are regarding tipping. Some private clubs do not allow employees to accept tips. If it is allowed, make sure you bring cash with you to tip. This will eliminate any potential for awkwardness later.
Tipping on the golf course is similar to tipping when you go out to dinner. If you enjoy your experience and think you received a valuable service, feel free to tip. There will be several opportunities to do so.
When you arrive, there will likely be a valet to assist with parking your car. Sometimes it is a bag-drop attendant. A few dollars will make a positive impression and guarantee that the attendant will take proper care of your vehicle and clubs.
If the course is busy, there will be a starter directing traffic from the clubhouse or first tee. If you find the starter to be friendly and helpful, say thanks by tipping $5-10. Sometimes they’ll start you sooner or allow you to play late in return for your generosity.
And don’t forget to tip your caddie. Their rates are set in advance, but a tip on top of that fee is optional. The club will usually recommend a certain amount. Tip your caddie directly at the end of your round.
Impress Your Host By Following These Etiquette Rules
Now whether this is your first golf outing or one of several, you’re prepared to make a positive impression. Follow these etiquette rules and your host will welcome you back time and time again!
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