Drew decided to change some things when she turned 30: “Being 30 means taking all of the things that worked in my 20s into my 30s, but not wanting it to be a carbon-copy decade and repeat everything. The first thing I chucked was guilt. Because I’m such a people-pleaser, I transform too many things into guilt. I want to take career goals to new heights. I want to travel more, expand my horizons. I want to do everything from direct a film to write a travel magazine.”
Jessica believe she has changed in a few ways: “I feel like I’m much more considerate and can give more of myself than I could before, as I was so caught up in being self-aware and being a people pleaser that I almost got in my own way. Now I’m at ease with myself. I’m definitely more grounded and secure in my choices. My priorities are completely different and I care a lot less about what people think of me who aren’t my family or friends.”