Pamela was taken advantage of as a teenager and only told her rape story recently: “My first experience with sex was non-consensual. The guy ran around in a panic saying,’ What have I done, what have I done.’ Looking back, it was awful. I felt like everyone knew that I had had sex, like it was tattooed on my forehead.”
Rufus was raped aged 14 and says it changed the direction of his life forever: “I actually consider that experience somewhat sensical and just. It gave me a chance to get my head out of that area and steered me in a different direction.”